Working with complete involvement only on work will involve in damaging your relationship. Even if, there is no relationship between work and relationship there will something which involve in both of the life. To have a balanced life between work and relationship you will have to deal with a spouse who is a workaholic.
Money plays an important role in the life of human being. You will need money for obviously many things. You will need to purchase a good dress, eat for stomach, etc. for all these you will need money. The need of money will be high when you are into a relationship because you will have to spend a lot of money when being compared to your single status life. Even if female go for work and earn it will look good the pay is done by the man.